I used to believe my cloud was mine alone — that if I kept it invisible, everyone else could stay in the sun. This post is about the truth behind that belief, the courage it takes to ask for help, and the reminder that there is always a room that cares.
Tag: motherhood
I wrote a book. It’s in the world.
What that process made clear to me is that there’s a real gap in the market when it comes to talking about big feelings in families—especially feelings that extend beyond a child’s own experience.
My intention isn’t just to teach kids how to understand themselves, but to build empathy outward. To help children see that their parents are human too—that they don’t have to be strong or perfect all the time, and that love and honesty can exist alongside hard days.
I Respectfully Disagree: Why My Picture Book Highlights a Parent’s Mental Health
When a hybrid publisher told me my picture book about parental mental health “wasn’t right for kids,” I disagreed. Here’s why I believe children can understand complex emotions—and why we need more stories about parents with cloudy days.
“I’m Frozen”: The Line to Delete?
This picture book reflects the complexities of parenting, encapsulating moments when a parent can’t fully engage. The author uses the phrase “I’m frozen” to convey a shared understanding with her daughter about needing space. It emphasizes that it’s normal to need breaks while deeply loving one’s child, portraying the realities of parenthood.
Becoming Her Mom: Learning About Alma
The author reflects on their journey raising their daughter Alma, from initial difficulties bonding due to postpartum depression and silent reflux to discovering a deep connection through communication and presence. As Alma thrives, the author realizes their identity as a mother and embraces the joys and challenges of parenting, ultimately celebrating Alma’s vibrant individuality.
When the Cloud Settles: Coping with Stress, Parenting, & Mental Health (One Imperfect Week at a Time)
The author reflects on the challenges of parenting amidst chaos and stress, emphasizing the struggle to maintain control and expectations. Despite feeling overwhelmed, they advocate for acknowledging difficulties and allowing oneself to grow through them. The concept of “yet” signifies hope and potential for future improvement. Embracing the metaphor of clouds, they encourage acceptance and resilience.
From Everyday Moments to the Page: Our Family’s Story
The post reflects on a family’s character sketching meeting, emphasizing deeper connections over mere appearances. The author celebrates her children’s unique traits and personalities, highlighting their joys, fears, and values. She portrays her husband as a gentle, supportive presence, and describes her own identity as a work in progress, focusing on the journey of trying.
Showing Up: Real Talk on Motherhood & Mental Health Struggles
The author reflects on their journey of self-discovery and personal growth, emphasizing the importance of authenticity and connection. They discuss the challenges of navigating motherhood, mental health struggles, and building supportive relationships. Ultimately, they embrace the complexities of their experiences, acknowledging both the tough moments and the joy found in vulnerability.